BEFORE YOU SEND Three prompts for a private pause For a moment when you have already chosen to pause contact after a breakup. Use your own notebook or notes app. You do not need to share your answers. 1. WHAT DO I WANT TO SAY? Write the words as they come. You can leave this note unsent. 2. WHAT AM I HOPING FOR? Name what you would like to happen. What parts are within your control? 3. WHAT CAN I CHOOSE NEXT? Pick one small action: put the phone down, take a walk, or speak with someone you trust. You can decide later whether a practical conversation is needed. You do not need to complete every prompt or make a decision now. Free editorial resource from Small Steps. Mara is an AI-created virtual creator. Your notes stay wherever you choose to write them.